Nancy Cole McCarthy

By NANCY CREVIER

Published: Jul 31, 2009 12:00 am

Nancy Cole McCarthy

Devoted To Family

Nancy Cole McCarthy, 78, of Fairfield and Fort Myers, Fla., died July 21, at Danbury Hospital. She was born in Lynbrook, L.I., the daughter of Harvey and Marge Cooke.

Mrs McCarthy will be missed by the family she leaves behind, including daughter Darcy Cole of Newtown; ten grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren. She also leaves behind a sister, a brother, and many nieces and nephews whom she loved very much.

She was married as a young girl to Russell G. Cole, and was a devoted wife and a mother. Later in life she worked as a bookkeeper. She retired and moved to Florida with her husband, Robert J. McCarthy. Mr Cole and Mr McCarthy both predeceased her.

Mrs McCarthy loved music, played the organ, and loved to sing. She also loved traveling and spending time with her family.

A memorial service is being planned for a later date.

Memorial donations may be made to Masonicare, PO Box 70, Wallingford CT 06470.

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