Frederick Brian Amey, known to all as Brian, passed away peacefully at 12:30 am on January 2, 2026, after many years living courageously with Parkinson’s disease. He was 88 years old.

Brian was born on February 11, 1937, in Southampton, England, to Frederick George Amey and Irene Amey. He spent his early years in the United Kingdom, where he served in the Royal Air Force (RAF), reflecting a strong sense of duty and responsibility that would guide him throughout his life.

Following his service, Brian built a successful career in banking with NatWest in London. He later moved to the United States, where he married Margaret Clayton Amey and made his home in Newtown. In the US, he continued his banking career as a branch manager and business development officer at Newtown Savings Bank. In 2006 Brian became a naturalized United States citizen, a milestone that reflected his deep commitment to the country and community he had chosen as home.

Brian devoted much of his life to Rotary, serving with integrity, humility, and quiet leadership at both the club and district levels. His Rotary journey spanned decades and touched countless lives through service, mentorship, and an unwavering commitment to doing what was right. He served as president of the Newtown Rotary Club (2003-2004), leading the club to earn a District Citation Award for achievement across all avenues of service.

Brian later served as governor of Rotary District 7980 (Southern Connecticut) from 2012 to 2013, providing calm, steady leadership during one of the most challenging periods the district faced, including the time surrounding the Sandy Hook tragedy. During his year as district governor, he led a Governor’s Project that raised approximately $20,000 in support of St Martin de Porres Academy, helping expand educational opportunities for at-risk youth. He was also a strong advocate for Rotary youth programs, including Interact, and believed deeply in developing the next generation of leaders.

Even after his formal leadership roles concluded, Brian remained an active and respected presence within Rotary, offering guidance, encouragement, and mentorship. He led quietly, contributed generously, and never sought recognition, yet his influence was deeply felt by those who had the privilege of knowing him.

Beyond Rotary, Brian was deeply committed to the Newtown community. He was an active member of Newtown Chamber of Commerce and contributed his time and energy to the Newtown Labor Day Parade Committee, always willing to support the town he loved.

Margaret, Brian’s beloved wife, passed away in 2013, a loss he carried with quiet strength and enduring love.

Beyond his professional and civic accomplishments, Brian was a man of genuine warmth and rich personal passions. He loved to travel, play golf, had a deep appreciation for jazz music — especially when it truly swung — and thoroughly enjoyed a good meal shared with good company. He valued thoughtful conversation, lasting friendships, and the simple pleasure of being part of a community.

Brian is remembered with love by those closest to him, including his stepdaughter Joanne Gardner and her husband Norm, and by the community he served and the many lives he touched through leadership, generosity, and kindness.

A memorial service will be held on January 17 at 3 pm at Honan Funeral Home in Newtown. All are welcome, and those who wish to do so are invited to share words and memories in remembrance of Brian. To leave an online condolence visit honanfh.com.