Prom Night Safety Advice For Parents & Teens

By GAIL SLUPATCHUK

Published: Apr 27, 2007 12:00 am

Prom Night Safety Advice

For Parents & Teens

MERIDEN â Prom night is probably the most anticipated night of the year for teens and can be the most dreaded by their parents. Although most teens think they know everything about how to stay safe, parents know otherwise. And, according to safety experts, it will take more than just talk to ensure a safe evening for all.

âNo matter how strong the family relationship, many parents are still unaware of the choices teens face every day,â said Ray Palermo, director of public information for Teachersâ Insurance Plan, based in Meriden. âFor parents to successfully reach their kids, theyâll have to approach safety issues in new, often more direct ways.â He offered several tips that go beyond âdonât drink and drive.â

Parents

*Get involved in planning prom night.

*Talk specifically about what your child and date should say or do in certain high-risk situation.

*Consider having a mutually agreed on âcontractâ for the night. Set out rules regarding post-prom parties or other activities â with whom they will be, where, for how long and what they will be doing.

*Get the names of other promgoers and phone numbers of their parents.

*Set a curfew based on past behavior, but be reasonable. This is a special night. Have your teen call if there is a delay.

*Send your teen a text message during prom night telling them to have fun, but reminding them not to do anything that could ruin a great time.

*Limit the number of passengers in a car.

*Be on call for a ride home or other emergency.

*Have a No Questions Asked policy on getting home safely.

*Join with other parents and rent a limo for them.

*Be the chauffeur for the night, but donât meddle. Rent a vintage car to make it more special.

Teens

*Make an agreement with your parents to not drink and drive, and not to ride with anyone else who is drinking.

*Resist high-risk activities of all types

*To avoid tampering, do not leave your beverage unattended.

*Check in with your parents during the night. It will go a long way toward reassuring them about how you are doing.

*Always buckle up.

*In short, follow your parentsâ rules.

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