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WITH FOUR PHOTOS
Newtown Remembered -
Class Is Out, But Memories Abound With Hawley Grads of the '30s and '40s
B Y A NDREA Z IMMERMANN
Marilyn Monroe came to shop in Newtown ... Lorretta Nichols fell down the coal
chute by Edmond Town Hall ... High school students learned to make beds in
nursing class ... And - Oh! - those handsome Flying Eagle bus drivers!
These and other memories tumbled out when friends from Hawley High School's
Class of 1946 gathered last week for a reunion. A lot of giggles and knowing
looks also passed between the five attendees: Velma Kovacs of Newtown, Mary
Crouch George of Bethel, Anna Krafcsik Schoenfeldt of Fairfield, Lorraine
Wheeler Mehvren of Southbury, and Marie Stanton Bell of Bethlehem, NH.
"We enjoyed our lives; we found things to do," said Velma. "We didn't know
about drugs or what liquor was... We went to a lot of dances at Edmond Town
Hall. We called it the ROMP - Recreation Opportunities For Modern People."
None of them had cars during high school, so they usually had to walk home.
"People thought we were too noisy walking home at 11," said Lorraine. She was
the first girl in her class to get a car - a green 1946 Plymouth - and that
was when she graduated.
With a car, the group of friends could take excursions, like driving to
Dodgingtown to ride horseback.
"I lost a horse in the woods and it took them one or two days to find it,"
laughed Velma. "He threw me. And then got his reigns tied around a tree so he
couldn't go anywhere."
The friends rode their bicycles "miles and miles" to visit one another. Two of
them worked picking strawberries at Bachman's farm off High Rock Road one
summer for three cents a quart.
For fun in the winter, the friends would throw their sleds in the back of a
truck and go sledding on the Newtown golf course.
"It was a different time," said Anna. "We used to have blizzards and stay home
for two weeks. In the 1930s, a blizzard was so bad our fathers had to shovel
the roads by hand - they couldn't get a plow through. We had twelve-foot snow
drifts."
Two of the women became acquainted with and later married bus drivers, who
worked for the Flying Eagle line.
"I worked at the Sandy Hook Diner - it was just a little coffee shop then. The
drivers used to stop in," said Mary, who now waitresses at the Trellis
Restaurant in Danbury.
Marie was a soda jerk at the Flagpole Fountain in the building opposite the
flagpole on Main Street. Nicknamed "Hungry Smith's" by the girls who worked
there, the soda fountain was a place where Hawley students congregated.
"I met Marilyn Monroe [there]. She had a bandana on and was just as beautiful
without makeup," said Marie. "She was shopping in town. She lived on Route 67
in Roxbury - at that time she was married to Arthur Miller."
Another one of the girls got to talk with Marlon Brando when he stopped to ask
her directions to the Newtown home of film producer Elia Kazan.
Velma and Lorraine worked for the telephone company, then located in the
second house on Main Street north from the corner of Church Hill Road.
"When there was a fire, everybody in town would pick up the phone and ask
where it was - even the volunteers would find out that way," said Velma. "The
board would light up like a Christmas tree!"
Now, when the women get together, they share pictures of their children and
grandchildren. And, because their graduating class was so small, "getting
together means writing a note," said Velma.
Class of 1936
Just around the corner from where the reunion was held in the restaurant, one
member of the Hawley School Class of 1936 and two from the Class of 1935
reminisced about growing up a decade earlier.
"I had to walk to school," said Doris M. Leahy, who moved here from Bridgeport
and was shocked that people had outhouses (or "Chick Sales" - so nicknamed for
the humorist who wrote about them). "I made a lot of friends over the years
just walking to school. They thought I was very radical because I came from
the city and from a socially aware family."
Lillian M. Ermisch grew up on The Boulevard, but her family also owned a
cottage on Lake Zoar. She was a member of the first Girl Scout Troop, which
formed in 1929, and is still a registered scout.
"I remember the Congregational Church Young People's Group had dances with a
jukebox in the barn or annex to the Hawley Manor," she said. "We had Sunday
School picnics. and on Class Day, we went to Putnam Park for a picnic; that
was a big deal."
Her grandmother was a widow who earned her living driving a jitney, or taxi,
in Newtown. During leisure time, Lillian's family would listen to Bamberger's
radio station.
"We ate baked beans and brown bread, Indian pudding, and liver - nobody eats
liver any more," said Lillian. "Those were Depression years."
"We were Depression babies," said Grace Murphy Rooke. As a young girl, she
worked at the Hawley Manor six and a half days a week for $20 a month (plus
tips). "We had to do waitressing, and make beds. But I made some very nice
friends there," she said.
"It was a very sedate country inn," said Doris, who married at 18. Her husband
was PGA golf pro at the Newtown Country Club, which was then managed by her
mother. "As a young bride I lived in one of the guest houses."
