Date: Fri 07-Aug-1998
Date: Fri 07-Aug-1998
Publication: Bee
Author: SHANNO
Quick Words:
Stub-Brown-magician-horse
Full Text:
Stub Brown: An Ageless, Active Humanitarian
(with cuts)
By June April
With a mischievous twinkle in his eyes, 95-year old Stub Brown called out to
the waitress, "Excuse me, miss, could I have some more coffee?"
As she poured, we watched her eyes grow wide as she realized the thumb on the
coffee cup's handle was blinking with a small red light. She looked
momentarily befuddled, but then saw us holding our hands over our mouths to
keep from laughing and knew she had been "had."
Somewhat sheepishly, Stub admitted to having a tendency to carrying around
magic tricks in his pockets. He relishes his opportunities to put them to use.
There are some unusual people in this world, and this particular industrious
and funny man is one of them. A long-time Newton resident, his values of
honesty, integrity, kindness and sharing are admirable.
Stub Brown does not have a mean word to say about anyone. After 44 years of
marriage, he still deeply loves and respects his wife, Marie.
Nicknamed "Stub" by his father, Arcsel Brown was born just 15 miles south of
the Canadian border in Columbia, New Hampshire, on August 10, 1903. The second
oldest of four children, Stub was up early to milk the cows on the Brown farm
before going to school. He had to quit school in order to work full-time when
he was 14 to supplement the family's income.
In 1923, Guy Brown moved most of his family south to Connecticut to help build
Yale University's golf course. Widely respected for his skill in working with
explosives, Guy Brown had no difficulty getting his son hired to be part of
the crew preparing the site.
The following year, the 21-year old Stub sought employment at Chatfield Paper
Company, where he began working as a truck driver. Fifty years and seven
months later, Stub retired, after having become manager of the warehouse.
When he wasn't working, socializing or riding horses, Stub was square dancing.
At age 50, Stub was struck by love one night while at a dance at Al Brundage's
barn. Stub recalled seeing a "vivacious, natural and lovely young lady ... who
cornered well and was one of those dancers who was light on her feet and could
really move.
"I went over to her and said `You're at the wrong end of the dance floor,'"
Stub said, looking with a warm, lovely smile at the woman who is still by his
side, long after that first dance.
Laughing her musical, gentle laugh, Marie admits she thought Stub was at first
"rather presumptuous," but she decided to be his partner anyway. Stub and
Marie were married two years later by the Reverend John Culliton at St Rose Of
Lima Church in Newtown. Two children, three grandchildren and many cues later,
the dance continues.
For 12 years, during his tenure at Chatfield, Stub drove a ten-horse hitch for
Kriz Brothers, the famous horseshoers whose clients, among others, include the
Budweiser Clydesdales. Stub was at the reins for a number of Danbury Fairs and
Barnum Festival Parades.
Tommy Monetti, the Bethel restaurateur, met Stub nearly three decades ago. At
the time the owner of The Colonial Club in Oxford, Mr Monetti contacted Kriz
Brothers to have a team brought to his restaurant during an Oktoberfest
Celebration. Stub was the driver of the six-horse hitch of Belgians
commissioned for the job. The two men immediately became fast friends.
"I would meet Stub at the Danbury Fair over the years," Mr Monetti recalled
recently. Although his job as director for food and beverages for the
Hilton-owned Waldorf-Astoria in Manhattan would have allowed him
top-of-the-line facilities at the local Hilton during the run of the Danbury
Fair, Mr Monetti instead chose to stay with his friend Stub, sleeping on hay
bales at the fair.
"We referred to it as the Hay Bale Hotel," he said with a laugh, "and we had
some great times there."
The horses for the Budweiser hitch were stabled in the building along with
some Holstein cattle, Mr Monetti started to share, "so Stub masterminds a
prank wherein we switch one of the Clydesdales with a Holstein.
"We got up about 5:30 the next morning, and hide behind a wall to watch what
will happen.
"There had been a lot of partying going on, and the fella who was caring for
the Clydes was really bleary-eyed that morning. He's going down the line of
stalls, feeding then currying the horses.
"When he gets to the stall with the cow, he climbs the ladder, just like he
does with all the horses, and starts going through the same motions. "It's
only because we couldn't contain our laughter that he finally realized what
was going on," Mr Monetti laughed.
It was also while working at Kriz Brothers that Stub met Stew Thompson, who
would become a fellow horse/buggy trainer and a dear friend.
"There's a legendary quality to Stub," observed Mr Thomson. "He genuinely
cares about everybody. Good deeds are a way of life for him. He's sincere and
loves to have fun." The same sentiments were echoed by Mr Brown's young
neighbor, Roger Stevens, who added that Stub and Marie are like grandparents
to his children.
Next, Stub worked for Howard Garfinkel at Huckleberry Farm in Greenville,
N.Y., for a few years. By then the owner of a magnificent variety of
carriages, stagecoaches and buggies, Stub was busier than ever. He was
involved in competitions, exhibitions and demonstrations with the farm's
"wheeled vehicles."
"We were asked to participate in The Royal," he said, referring to an event
open by invitation only. Hundreds of ribbons pinned up in the barn/office
where he currently works, along with those that decorate the Browns' home,
testify to Stub's skill and mastery of horse and hitch.
After the death of Mr Garfinkel, thereby ending his career at Huckleberry,
Stub continued to be called upon to drive hitches for various individuals and
groups. Knee surgery three years ago caused a temporary halt to his
activities. Today he is happily employed by Roger and Mary Funk, for whom he
takes care of six Morgan horses, two dogs and three cats.
The Original Horse Whisperer
Stub has always been interested in people and "things," he says. In 1957, he
accepted an invitation from his friend Joe Pascale to join him at a meeting of
The Magic Society. Today the amateur magician still impresses people with his
tricks.
Stub often donates his talents, and time, to entertain at hospitals and
convalescent homes. His wife says he has brought happiness to patients of all
ages.
Marie related one special incident that happened years ago, when the Browns'
daughter, Dede, was 6. Dede went along with Stub for one of his magic shows at
a nursing home. To everyone's surprise and delight, a patient who had not
spoken for years responded to Dede, carrying around one of her father's trick
rabbits and asking "all kinds of questions," Marie shared.
Stub's magic repertoire includes rope tricks, slight of hand, and disappearing
objects including birds and bunnies that appear, disappear, and reappear.
Marie teases Stub, saying she has a hard time keeping her scarves and
handkerchiefs around.
A common observation about Stub is that he has the deepest respect for people
and animals. Like the now-famous horse whisperer from the book by Nicholas
Evans (and brought to life earlier this year on the big screen by the actor
Robert Redford), Stub creates magic with animals. He is gentle, but firm;
understanding and quiet. The integrity that marks his actions carries through
into the rest of his life.
Roger Funk waxed enthusiastic on the excellence of Stub's work, and the
strength that is at the center of the man's being.
"He has a wealth of knowledge about horses that he readily shares, and we
trust him completely in every way," said Stub's current employer, although the
two act more like buddies than employer-employee. "When Stub and I were
driving up to Litchfield, he said he would like to be able to drive horses
when he's 100. At first I didn't know what to say, but then I asked, `Do you
think [our horse] Major will make it?'"
Having worked with many animals during his life, one of the most special
memories for Stub are those which concern a Morgan named Ledgelands Firechief.
The horse was a retired roadster at Bittersweet Farms in Bethany, where Stub
worked for four years for Lance and Martha Wetmore.
"He caught my eye and I felt he would make a fine carriage horse," Stub
recalled. Although everyone else tried to discourage this fancy, within a few
months and after working his special touch and patience with the animal, Stub
achieved his goal.
"We melded into an impressive unit and for three years we traveled to and won
competitions throughout New England." In 1991, the American Morgan Horse
Association awarded Stub with its Masters Certificate.
Stories abound testifying to Stub's sense of honor and commitment. He is a
winner, in the best sense of that word.
"`Compete' should be his middle name," Marie points out with a laugh. "The
more in competition, the happier he is. Don't ever tell him he can't, because
then he'll have to prove to you that he can."
Stub still gets up every morning around dawn, going off to feed and care for
the Funks' horses. At age 95, he is the "Eveready Bunny, still going strong,"
he says. His grip is astonishingly strong, and his mind forges onto new tasks
and dreams.
There is a magnetic quality to this man that draws people from all walks of
life, and of all ages, to his side. There is much to be celebrated about Stub
Brown. Whether he is being honored as Recycler of the Month by his community
newspaper, sage adviser for the best ways to care for horses, or just making a
young child smile thanks to the enchantment of a magic trick, Stub Brown is
always ready to share and to give.
