Date: Fri 10-Nov-1995
Date: Fri 10-Nov-1995
Publication: Bee
Author: ANDREA
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WITH PHOTO:Carlen Gaines Wins State Youth Advocacy Award
Carlen Gaines isn't shy about being an advocate for youth in the community,
but when the spotlight turns to her tremendous achievements, she suddenly
becomes self conscious. This proved the case when she received the Connecticut
Youth Services Association's (CYSA) Youth Advocate of The Year Award on
October 27, at its annual meeting.
"Very often the CYSA gives this award to somebody who is involved with
politics on the state level - someone who might have helped pass a bill [to
benefit youth, for example]," said the organization's outgoing president David
Melillo. CYSA has a membership of 86 youth bureaus from 110 cities and towns
throughout the state. "But Carlen Gaines was just so outstanding that we were
really happy to make that different approach this year."
Mrs Gaines was nominated by Newtown Youth Services because of the enormous
amount of time and energy she has devoted to every facet of the lives of youth
in our community, according to Deborah Richardson, director of NYS. "Her
contributions are done in a quiet, unassuming way and the effects are far
reaching," said the director. "She certainly believes in 'youth' and works
hard to contribute to creating opportunities for positive growth - physically,
spiritually, psychologically, and socially."
Mrs Gaines, who has lived in Newtown for ten years, said she was overwhelmed
to even have been considered for the award. "Receiving the award has let me
see how important [Newtown] Youth Services is and all Connecticut youth
services," she said. "I think Newtown does a phenomenal job as an advocate for
youth and families. And I'm proud to be a part of this organization."
Mrs Gaines is willing to say things that "are unpopular" and is committed to
all children, especially those she feels are not being fairly represented,
according to Ms Richardson. "She has been a very successful lobbyist, both
with the Board of Education and with the town's Legislative Council, with
regards to youth issues and funding for youth services," said the director.
The award recipient has been an active member of Hawley School PTA, was
instrumental in spearheading the construction of new playground equipment at
the school and served as the Hawley School PTA president for two years. She
was also vice president of Newtown PTA Council, assisted with the DARE
program, and has been a member of the Newtown Substance Abuse Task Force. Mrs
Gaines has helped coordinate the Newtown Fund's holiday gift and food
distribution program, served as Cub Scout den leader for more than three
years, was co-chair of SAFE Homes, has worked on the After Prom Party, and has
chaperoned many Middle School dances.
"What are known only to her closest friends, are all the thoughtful and
compassionate acts of kindness she does for others, personally," said Susan
Costa, assistant director of NYS. "Whenever Carlen learns of someone who may
be going through a difficult time in his or her life or in need of something,
she is the first one at the door with a hot meal, support, or words of
encouragement."
Mrs Gaines has assisted the Meals On Wheels Program in Newtown. She has served
on the Discipline Committee and the Governance Council, which examined all the
aspects of education and life at the Middle School and made recommendations
for how it could be more effective for students.
She is a member of the Middle and High School PTAs, and teaches religious
education classes at St Rose Church. She has also been active in both Parks
and Rec and school youth sporting programs.
"She is everywhere - and she works and raises her family," said Ms Richardson.
"Carlen is an exceptional and wonderful human being. We're proud of the fact
that she got selected - she was up against some pretty tough competition."
Since April, 1992, Mrs Gaines has been a key member of the board of directors
for Newtown Youth Services. She has been adviser to Youth Advisory Board, and
also has chaired NYS's Haunted Yard the past two years.
