Date: Fri 10-May-1996
Date: Fri 10-May-1996
Publication: Bee
Author: ANDREA
Quick Words:
AIDS-Newcomers-quilts
Full Text:
with photo: Adding Warmth To The Lives Of Terminally Ill Children
B Y A NDREA Z IMMERMANN
Eleven infants and children who have AIDS or are considered at-risk, will now
have something warm that they can cling to, no matter how many foster homes
they are in, no matter how uncertain life is. That is because members of the
Newcomer's Club of Newtown have continued their annual tradition of creating
and donating child-sized quilts to an organization that works with medically
fragile children.
This year, the volunteers chose The Dwelling Place in Bethel, run by Janice
and John Stumpf. The facility provides rehabilitative training, cares for
special children aged newborns to seven, offers a Hospice for terminally
ill/AIDS children, and trains parents to care for these children. The couple
has also been foster parents for 13 years.
"It's nice when children receive their own blankets - it's theirs, and a
comfort," said Mrs Stumpf when the Newcomers presented the quilts at their
annual luncheon meeting in late April. "It's not just a baby blanket. It's a
homemade memoir of the child - parents keep it out after a child dies."
Many foster children get moved frequently for a variety of reasons. "If
they're scooped up in an emergency, the blanket may be the only thing they
have," she said. "So it's exciting that the Newcomers have done this."
The children who receive these blankets feel important because someone took
the time to make the quilt for them - it's theirs. They watch TV with the
quilts, sleep with them, and make tents out of them, said Mrs Stumpf.
Three of the Newcomers' quilts went to HIV babies being cared for in a home in
Mystic; another one went to a child in Stratford. Mrs Stumpf said, when each
quilt is given away, she will take a photograph of it wrapped around the baby
and in the arms of a foster parent. Prints will be sent to the Newcomers.
"If you have something you care about in this club, you can do it," said
Suzanne Davenport, who is past president and current chair of Community
Service for Newcomer's Club. She began the quilt project two years ago and
continues to organize it. "It makes me feel good. The club is not just a
social thing - there is interest in civic activities."
Dagmar donated bolts of fabric, club members contributed additional fabric,
and Fairfield Processing donated the batting for the quilts.
